"The Script"
I'm still alive but I'm barely breathing...
Let's not judge the Beauty Queen. Although, not having a certain judgment, already preempts a certain judgment. But! Remember, we always have our own reasons. Thus, we are all entitled for our own opinions. But that doesn't mean, we have the right to condemn the her, without even knowing the whole story of her, breaking up with the boyfriend. I don't think it's right to conclude right away. Deciding upon something, like breaking up with her boyfriend is extremely a tough decision, it takes time. Some time to utter those words. She might felt the remorse afterwards, but the thing is.. She's just being truthful to herself. Although she's risking the relationship she have with the boyfriend. No assurances with this rumored, suitor, Danny. The lead vocalist of The Script. I believe what she did isn't a form of cheating. Rather, a form of expressing one's self. At least, the Beauty Queen is being honest to her ex beloved, and of course to herself. She just doesn't want to be unfair.
It may sound irrational for some, but I'm getting where she's coming from. Not that I'm going over her side, I am not being biased here. I'm just trying to weigh things. Why does it escalated this fast? But seriously, I don't really care about the matter.. It's just that. For me it is some sort of legen. Wait for it... dary. Yes, it is quite legendary! Believe me, there are lots of memes and scattered all over the web, claiming that the Beauty Queen is so maharot, a cheater, a flirt and the like. But wait! The way I view it is that, she's just being too straightforward and honest, to the point that she wanted to be transparent to her boyfriend, which I guess is very essential in a relationship.
Now, let's talk about love for the boyfriend, and love for an idol. I mean, being a fan girl. Not that I'm supporting what she did, the way she humiliated her boyfriend was of course, something that isn't really to be proud of, but the thought of.. 'Hey, it's Danny. He's my idol, and I'm such a big fan girl' is extremely different from, 'Yes, Jaypee is my boyfriend, we've been together for about a year now, and I love him.' But...
Here comes the BUT. I also love Danny. Well of course, in a different degree. -And this is just my point. I don't intend to protect the Beauty Queen, just because I did the same thing years ago. But I just want the media and the society to "see" and "interpret" the decision of the Beauty Queen in a closed-ended decision. It may vary though, besides we're not in her shoes, we're not in their relationship to well, jump into our own conclusions. I am not saying that there's something wrong with how those memes escalated so fast, it's just that... I think, she went a little too overboard, from being a fan girl, that she suddenly changes to be the insensitive girlfriend.
But furthermore? I think it's too much. Everything's too much now. Maybe, she should learn how to be discreet the next time Kris Aquino ask her on Philippine television. :) Same with us, people. All right. Enough with this. :)
PS: But how can I actually be discreet when I'm feeling like so kilig and all? My idol and I are now talking. Yesterday, it was just a dream, now it is a living reality. So, is there really something wrong if I can't keep my cool? Tell me. :D
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