THINGS TO PONDER WHEN YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP

Things to ponder, when you're in a relationship. (Wala lang. Naisip ko lang kasi. Try nyong basahin, hahaha. Baka magets at marealize nyo rin mga narealize ko.) Yan ay, kung nasa relationship kayo, pero.. Pwede rin naman, kahit Single ka, kasi kapag dumating na yung time na magiging in a Relationship ka na, malalaman mo narin kung ano tong mga sinasabi ko. :)

1) Boys: When you started courting this girl, are you sure you’re not seeing other girls?

Girls: When you agreed to be courted, are you sure that he makes you the center of his attention? Are you sure that you’re the only one he makes you feel that way?

2) Boys: When this girl said ‘yes’ to be with you in a relationship, are you sure that she’s the one you want to commit with? There’s no turning back, you see.

Girls: When you said ‘yes’ to this guy, are you sure that he will comply with your standards? Or are your standards even necessary? Aren’t you expecting too much? See, you have to set your limitations and never give all your love. Leave something for yourself.

3) Boys: When in a long distance relationship, aren’t you missing something? Have you given yourself to temptations? How could you manage such a relationship? What ways can you do to make the relationship stronger? Is trust enough?

Girls: When in a long distance relationship, can’t you lower your expectations, that when there are no means to see each other, can’t you open your mind and wait for opportunities to find its way? Can’t you not patiently wait to prevent misunderstandings? Can you let him have his own world, having the assurance that you are always given importance? Can’t you be sensitive enough on his efforts? Can’t you let him talk to other girls despite your absence?

4) Boys: After the break-up, isn’t it possible to revive the relationship you once had? Or if compromise won’t make things better, can’t you wait for a while and let your heart heal its wounds before opening the doors to someone else? Can’t you re-assure that all the issues are closed? Have you closed your heart to that person after the break-up? Are you ready to love again?

Girls: Isn’t it tiring to cry all night long? Isn’t it enough to spend sleepless nights alone? Come on, girl. Lift your chin up! Aren’t you excited to move on and open opportunities for someone who deserves you better? Can’t you move on by being busy? Give time for yourself. Or are you sure that all issues are closed and that your relationship ended peacefully? Are you sure you wanted this freedom?

Let’s think about these things together :>